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What Lies Below Men’s Privilege?
Fear and desire. Since The New York Times and New Yorker outed Harvey Weinstein’s decades-long history of sexual misconduct last October, women have been speaking out in droves via the #MeToo hashtag. I think women calling out harassment, assault, rape,...
End the Patriarchy
How to repurpose power and harmony in relationships. On one of my recent visits to see my parents, my Mother and I were taking a morning walk through the cool and heavy fog of San Francisco’s Bay. These long hikes together were a long tradition between us, during the...
Break Through Your Glass Ceiling of Greatness
How to overcome the fear of being big In the world. As a recovered fat-kid, I have had a lifelong issue with being perceived as BIG. You might have met me before: I was the kid in your high-school class that always carried an extra 40 pounds, tended to wear...
How to Make It Safe for a Woman’s Truth
An unexpected wake-up call with significant results. It’s ten minutes into the worst massage of my life, and I’m counting the minutes until it’s over. This is not what I expected at all. It’s been a terribly challenging May with a mix of a full client load, working on...
When your Significant Other wants a BF
Photo via https://www.pexels.com/@tranmautritam *Names altered to protect the adventurous Their story is not unusual. They are in their early-30’s, together for eight years, married for most of it, and she is rapidly evolving before his naive and frightened eyes. The...
[Fierce Honesty] How To Boldly Transform Your Relationships & Your Life
Photo Credit: Sanketh Rao via Pexels.com Writer’s Note #1: I originally learned these terms and concepts in 2002. Credit goes to Victor Baranco although I can not verify he was the originator of these terms. Writer’s Note #2: There are many experiences in life where...
Why Shitty Customer Service Irks Me
I know that I can be a bit anal retentive. I’m the kind of guy who notices when magazine spines aren’t lined up on a coffee table, when the picture on your wall is slightly askew or when a number in your P&L seems somewhat too high. It annoys me. This morning, I...
What Lies Below Men’s Privilege? Fear & Desire
Since The New York Times and New Yorker outed Harvey Weinstein’s decades-long history of sexual misconduct last month, women have been speaking out in droves via the #MeToo hashtag. I think women calling out harassment, assault, rape, and rape culture is...