Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching.
For more than 20 years, Rob has shared his radically practical advice for finding passion and fulfilment in your work, your relationships, and your life. His advice is simple (though not necessarily easy): Connect with your deepest self (flawed as you may be) so that you can stop hiding, embrace life with authenticity and vulnerability and walk the unHIDDEN path.
When developing the unHIDDEN path, Rob recognized that there wasn’t one single ‘transformational moment’ or ‘unmasking’ that define an unHIDDEN life. Rather, living unHIDDEN is a process; a day-by-day exercise that’s equal parts getting to know yourself and revealing yourself.
With his unique style of candor and compassion, Rob gently tosses aside your bullsh*t excuses and shows you how to get out of your own way.
Andrea Vacca is a mediator and collaborative lawyer who helps her clients end their marriages without destroying their families. Getting to know her clients, their concerns, and their goals for their future, she assists them in crafting an agreement that will meet...read more
Here Rob explores the spectrum and breadth of new sexual identies from lesbian and gay to transgender and pangendered. Don't forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men and Those Confused by Them. It's your easy-to-understand at-home...read more
This episode is about men’s depression with Terry Real, the groundbreaking author of “I Don’t Want To Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression”. Get the book here. Don't forget to grab your copy of the Amazon bestseller unHidden: A Book For Men...read more
In this episode Robert jumps into his third episode of his six vunerable conversations series: Exploring Transgender Identity. We dive into everything involving new relationships, and sex after transition with new genitalia. This is an episode not to be missed! Don't...read more
This episode is all about unshedding self-diminishment, taking ownership of the good and the bad to improve our lives, getting off our butts to do the work to be who we know we can be.read more
The second episode of Season 5 of 6 Vulnerable Conversations. *CC Song Credit by Spectacular Sound Productions Fly A Kite by Spectacular Sound*read more
In this episode, Jordan Shapiro, author of "The New Childhood" discusses technology and the relationship between kids, technology, and parents. Shapiro discusses the importance of parents and their role in facilitating kids' behavior. Teaching children technological...read more
We kick off the 5th edition of Six Vulnerable Conversations and this time, it's between three very unique perspectives. We hope you enjoy!read more
We talk with Jim Ramos about The Man Card, Religion, and what it means to be a man today. Jim Ramos' passionate proclamation of God's word, relational humor, and epic storytelling skills will keep you riveted in your seat. Jim is a highly sought after men’s event...read more
Retired Navy SEAL Chris Sajnog, a Master Training Specialist in the Navy, was hand-selected to write the US Navy SEAL Sniper Manual. He used this experience, plus four years of studying neuroscience and elite performance, to develop the SEAL Training System...read more
Patriarchy is practiced in this society as men hold primary power, and it has been around for 3500 to 4000 BCE. However, men cannot ignore the shift of women rising into a position of sovereignty. Do you believe that behind every successful man is a woman? How...read more
We all go through life having grown out of our ways and discover some things that show us what we have really been missing. Gerard Powell knows this journey all too well. From having a troubled childhood and being a high school dropout to building...read more
For some, the perfectionist inside of us tends to hold us back more than we thought it would be. It keeps us from achieving and even from loving ourselves. Life coach and founder of Hearts Unleashed Abigail Gazda shares how she came to understand perfectionism...read more
Being nice does not mean you are being true to yourself. Recovering nice guy and author of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Robert Glover, takes us into what he learned over the years about the state of men through his own personal journey, and how he found...read more
Rob gives his take on the Gillette ad that has been gaining a lot of attention recently. With the line “Gillette, Be The Best Man You Can Be,” people have been going back and forth about their own opinions, showing the polarizing impact and importance of this...read more
Many of us are still attached to the labels and people's old perception of us even if there's something else that we want or we can be. We tend to cover ourselves with what society tells us to do. This can be due to the fear of the consequence. Taking off the...read more
We have so many stories about why we’re not worthy and why we’re not lovable, how no woman or man could keep up with us, how they would not want to be with us if we showed them all of us. We put on this girdle, this protection and armor because we don't think...read more
Not many realize this but our relationship with money stems far deeper than the want for physical things it can afford us. It runs from how we grew up, to how we perceive our worth. Michelle Masters, NLP Trainer and Master Practitioner, traces our relationship...read more
As the world changes, so is the dynamic of how we create relationships. When it comes to the relationship between men and women, what worked for men before do not anymore work today. Women do not need men the way the society thinks they did. They are now more...read more
Every moment is an opportunity to cultivate your mind, body, and movement. That is Aaron Alexander’s tagline for Align Therapy because he believes it would be insane for that not to be the way that you live your life. Aaron is an accomplished manual therapist...read more
Rob takes three of his favorite unHidden Conversations from powerful and energetic Facebook Lives that he did to celebrate his book launch. Sensual embodiment coach Miriam Elyse talks about pleasure and the unconscious ways that we avoid it. Confidence coach...read more