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Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching.
For more than 20 years, Rob has shared his radically practical advice for finding passion and fulfilment in your work, your relationships, and your life. His advice is simple (though not necessarily easy): Connect with your deepest self (flawed as you may be) so that you can stop hiding, embrace life with authenticity and vulnerability and walk the unHIDDEN path.
When developing the unHIDDEN path, Rob recognized that there wasn’t one single ‘transformational moment’ or ‘unmasking’ that define an unHIDDEN life. Rather, living unHIDDEN is a process; a day-by-day exercise that’s equal parts getting to know yourself and revealing yourself.
With his unique style of candor and compassion, Rob gently tosses aside your bullsh*t excuses and shows you how to get out of your own way.
242: How Plandemic (the film) almost Ended my Marriage
The CHASM. The difference of opinion. Our beliefs. Our viewpoints. Our programming. In the best of times, our differences creates more polarity, more power more curiosity, more strength. In these times, our disparate beliefs are causing DEEP DEEP separation. I know...
085: Reclaiming Lost Pieces with Nancy Levin
During a breakdown, we often give others a lens into which they can see a perfect version of ourselves. The quest for perfection isn’t necessarily bad because it makes us strive to be better. But it can also eat us up when we don’t get the results that we want....
084: On Death
There are many cultures that believe death is just another part of life; that your spirit leaves your body and goes to another plane of existence. As kids growing up with parents, grandparents and relatives, we get scared of the idea of losing them. They impact...
083: Unleash your Inner Dominatrix with Dana Pharant
When you put limits on your body and your business you also put limits on having fun. Dana Pharant of Inner Dominatrix explains that domination is an internal work where the energy that is inside of you is allowed to come out, making desire a tool to meet your...
082: My Love/Hate Relationship with Social Media
There are 61 social media apps present today and leading them are Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, YouTube and a handful others. Social media and the addiction to it actually started with Friendster and MySpace back in 2004, but it was Facebook that really put the...
081: Start With Self-Love with Kat Courtney
Everyone has a part of themselves that they don’t feel comfortable or don’t like and they feel that it isn’t an ideal part of their life. This is called the shadow, a part of the unconscious that we push away, but shouldn’t because it is still energy that we...
080: 22 Questions in 44 Minutes
Man is naturally inquisitive. We have always been asking questions from the very moment we developed the concept of speech and communication. From that, we also developed the concept of being curious about everything and anything. As we grow into maturity and...
079: Drop your Ego, Meet Women with Ryan Black
Our education and community has instilled in us a limiting belief that men are evil and bad because of their sexual desires. The last thing men should do is to let women know about these desires because their purity will break them. This mindset is partly the...
078: What Do You Do When Your Partner Is Distracted?
When you hide things from your partner, that’s when the relationship goes downhill. There will be times that the two of you will not meet at the same level because of circumstances like work or family. As a responsible man, you try to understand the situation...
077: Introvert –> Extrovert
There is a place in us where we feel who we are and we see who we want to be. When we take a step towards making that a reality, we start to create experiences for ourselves that will let us go from introvert to extrovert. Even a shy and overweight kid can...
076: War Stories with Erwan & Alicia Davon
When we are looking to change ourselves, the first thing we naturally see is the exterior. We work hard on our exterior and go deep to cultivate our presence and awareness. Erwan and Alicia Davon work on this at a deeper level. They have been helping singles...
075: Dealing with Debt
Our concept of debt can be divided into two types. We have conscious debt and unconscious debt. An example of conscious debt is signing up for business loans. We are aware that when we sign our names on the paper, we have to pay back the money on a certain...
074: Getting OUT of your Comfort Zone with Tripp Lanier
The path of growth is always a process that has no finish line. It’s natural to not want to step out of your comfort zone. The comfort zone is another term for hiding space. When we feel secure, we want to stay there. As a business owner, this isn’t growth but...
073: Exiting the Prisons We Create
When we enter relationships, we sometimes create prisons inside us when we don’t speak out what our desires are. One way of exiting these prisons we create is through communication because this is where our emotions start to speak out. You have to understand...
072: “Never Say this on a Date” with Jeffrey Platts
Guys always go for the lines like “Let’s go grab a coffee,” or “Let’s go get some ice cream,” because it somehow lessens the fear of asking a woman out. Jeffrey Platts teaches his clients to be bold and courageous when asking a woman on a date. “Is this a...
071: WTF is up with Romance Today?
The way millennials have been dating makes romance today very confusing. Men in their 30s and 40s want to date women half their age, and these women also look at dating men half of their age. The first wave that brought this up is the emergence of cell phones....
070: Sexual Self-Mastery with Destin Gerek
As precocious twelve year-old boys, we discovered sexual drives that push us to do things we would normally hide from our parents. As we grow into adulthood, we need to reprogram that concept and turn this biological urge into energy and expression of our...
069: Confronting Fear and Scarcity
It’s a no-brainer that women experience fear on a different level than men, but that’s not to say that men constantly live in a society governed by fear. We realize that there is a need to be willing to pay attention, ask questions to investigate and look at...
068: A Woman’s Ego with Arielle Brown
What women want from men is for them to become a strong and steady person that can handle them so well that they have no fear of unraveling themselves. However, women often conceal this desire because of the way society has told them to act and behave. Arielle...
067: A Man’s Ego
It has been a longtime impression that a man should be stoic and suppress their emotions. This concept of men has changed in this millennial generation because most men these days are feminine male. They choose to get out of their heads and pay attention to the...
066: Reigniting your Mojo with Deborah Kagan
The rise of feminism in today’s society has been very beneficial and impactful for women, but there is one other thing that Deborah Kagan believes needs to be addressed, and that is reigniting your mojo. This god particle or life force has never been gender...