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Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching.
For more than 20 years, Rob has shared his radically practical advice for finding passion and fulfilment in your work, your relationships, and your life. His advice is simple (though not necessarily easy): Connect with your deepest self (flawed as you may be) so that you can stop hiding, embrace life with authenticity and vulnerability and walk the unHIDDEN path.
When developing the unHIDDEN path, Rob recognized that there wasn’t one single ‘transformational moment’ or ‘unmasking’ that define an unHIDDEN life. Rather, living unHIDDEN is a process; a day-by-day exercise that’s equal parts getting to know yourself and revealing yourself.
With his unique style of candor and compassion, Rob gently tosses aside your bullsh*t excuses and shows you how to get out of your own way.

247: Saving Sex for Marriage with Robb Kowalski
Rob Kowalski is a self-professed "reformed bad boy" with a riveting personal testimony from living as the biggest stripper in his hometown of Baltimore, Maryland to running the nightlife. He gave up a life of casual sex and addictions and is now the founder of the...

189: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 3
In this episode Robert jumps into his third episode of his six vunerable conversations series: Exploring Transgender Identity. We dive into everything involving new relationships, and sex after transition with new genitalia. This is an episode not to be missed! Don't...

188: Rob Rant: The King Archetype
This episode is all about unshedding self-diminishment, taking ownership of the good and the bad to improve our lives, getting off our butts to do the work to be who we know we can be.

187: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 2
The second episode of Season 5 of 6 Vulnerable Conversations. *CC Song Credit by Spectacular Sound Productions Fly A Kite by Spectacular Sound*

186: The New Childhood with Jordan Shapiro
In this episode, Jordan Shapiro, author of "The New Childhood" discusses technology and the relationship between kids, technology, and parents. Shapiro discusses the importance of parents and their role in facilitating kids' behavior. Teaching children technological...

185: Six Vulnerable Conversations Series 5 Episode 1
We kick off the 5th edition of Six Vulnerable Conversations and this time, it's between three very unique perspectives. We hope you enjoy!

184: The Man Card with Jim Ramos
We talk with Jim Ramos about The Man Card, Religion, and what it means to be a man today. Jim Ramos' passionate proclamation of God's word, relational humor, and epic storytelling skills will keep you riveted in your seat. Jim is a highly sought after men’s event...

183: Accelerate Learning with Navy SEAL Chris Sajnog
Retired Navy SEAL Chris Sajnog, a Master Training Specialist in the Navy, was hand-selected to write the US Navy SEAL Sniper Manual. He used this experience, plus four years of studying neuroscience and elite performance, to develop the SEAL Training System...

180: Patriarchy In Business: A One-On-One Interview by Peter Rubin
Patriarchy is practiced in this society as men hold primary power, and it has been around for 3500 to 4000 BCE. However, men cannot ignore the shift of women rising into a position of sovereignty. Do you believe that behind every successful man is a woman? How...

179: Sex, Consciousness And Plant-Medicine with Gerard Powell
We all go through life having grown out of our ways and discover some things that show us what we have really been missing. Gerard Powell knows this journey all too well. From having a troubled childhood and being a high school dropout to building...

178: Recovering From Perfectionism with Abigail Gazda
For some, the perfectionist inside of us tends to hold us back more than we thought it would be. It keeps us from achieving and even from loving ourselves. Life coach and founder of Hearts Unleashed Abigail Gazda shares how she came to understand perfectionism...

177: No More Mr. Nice Guy with Dr. Robert Glover
Being nice does not mean you are being true to yourself. Recovering nice guy and author of the book No More Mr. Nice Guy, Dr. Robert Glover, takes us into what he learned over the years about the state of men through his own personal journey, and how he found...

176: Angry At The Gillette Ad? Good!
Rob gives his take on the Gillette ad that has been gaining a lot of attention recently. With the line “Gillette, Be The Best Man You Can Be,” people have been going back and forth about their own opinions, showing the polarizing impact and importance of this...

175: How to Peel Back The Layers Of The “Shoulds” with Kelsey Abbott
Many of us are still attached to the labels and people's old perception of us even if there's something else that we want or we can be. We tend to cover ourselves with what society tells us to do. This can be due to the fear of the consequence. Taking off the...

174: Our Inability To Receive
We have so many stories about why we’re not worthy and why we’re not lovable, how no woman or man could keep up with us, how they would not want to be with us if we showed them all of us. We put on this girdle, this protection and armor because we don't think...

173: Money Magic with Michelle Masters
Not many realize this but our relationship with money stems far deeper than the want for physical things it can afford us. It runs from how we grew up, to how we perceive our worth. Michelle Masters, NLP Trainer and Master Practitioner, traces our relationship...

172: unHIDDEN Book Reading Chapter 16
As the world changes, so is the dynamic of how we create relationships. When it comes to the relationship between men and women, what worked for men before do not anymore work today. Women do not need men the way the society thinks they did. They are now more...

171: Align Your Body with Aaron Alexander
Every moment is an opportunity to cultivate your mind, body, and movement. That is Aaron Alexander’s tagline for Align Therapy because he believes it would be insane for that not to be the way that you live your life. Aaron is an accomplished manual therapist...

170: unHidden Conversations with Miriam, Kelsey, and Daniel
Rob takes three of his favorite unHidden Conversations from powerful and energetic Facebook Lives that he did to celebrate his book launch. Sensual embodiment coach Miriam Elyse talks about pleasure and the unconscious ways that we avoid it. Confidence coach...

169: unHidden Conversations: 3 unHIDDEN Conversations with Gina, Mary Lou & Tory
Get inspired by three women as they share unHidden Conversations. Coach and speaker Gina Hatzis speaks about her viral video on what it means to be too much woman. She explores how women, too often, are told to be small in this world -pushing down the common...

168: Worth It: Your Life, Your Money, Your Terms with Amanda Steinberg
We constantly hear the traditional narrative about money: you grow up, get married, combine your finances, then save for retirement. However, what people fail to say is that it doesn’t always work in a linear fashion. Financial expert, entrepreneur and human...