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Featuring Rob Kandell as your host/coach/best-friend-you-never-knew-you-had, Tuff Love is a grab-bag of rants, listener Q&A’s, and captivating interviews with experts on everything from money-management to intimate touching.
For more than 20 years, Rob has shared his radically practical advice for finding passion and fulfilment in your work, your relationships, and your life. His advice is simple (though not necessarily easy): Connect with your deepest self (flawed as you may be) so that you can stop hiding, embrace life with authenticity and vulnerability and walk the unHIDDEN path.
When developing the unHIDDEN path, Rob recognized that there wasn’t one single ‘transformational moment’ or ‘unmasking’ that define an unHIDDEN life. Rather, living unHIDDEN is a process; a day-by-day exercise that’s equal parts getting to know yourself and revealing yourself.
With his unique style of candor and compassion, Rob gently tosses aside your bullsh*t excuses and shows you how to get out of your own way.
246: Moving from 3D to 4D to 5D with Taylor Simpson
Taylor Simpson is a sought after Motivational Speaker, a Podcast Host and Online Mindset Coach. Through her methodology of combining Science, Spirituality, and Mysticism, Taylor helps women around the world tap into the Frequency of Money and step into their unique...
167: The Good Dad Project: The Dad’s Edge with Larry Hagner
Probably 99.99% of us have a little father wound, a little issue with our own a father that's impacted us. Larry Hagner is doing one of the most important pieces of work out there, teaching men to be better men and to become better fathers. Larry is the founder...
166: Forgiveness Among The Genders
The world is a form of transition. We live in a time of evolution and a time where things are changing dramatically and in so many different fashions. We've seen a significant change in the last 50 or 60 years. We're seeing all this anger, divisiveness, and...
165: Getting To Hell Yes with Alexandra Jamieson and Bob Gower
Getting to Hell Yes will teach you a simple, guided methodology that allows groups to increase empathy and trust. It can be used in sales, when launching a team, or at any point during the project where some refocus is needed. Alexandra Jamieson and Bob Gower...
164: Exquisite Consent with the Brotherhood Community
While a lot of men are freaking out about the #MeToo movement, some of us are finding that embracing ever more exquisite levels of consent and attunement with women is the path to everybody getting more of what they want. Robert Schwenkler, Peter Rubin, and...
163: Your Erotic Blueprint with Jaiya Ma
Sexuality changes. It's not something that stays the same our whole lifetime. It is malleable, it moves, and it changes as life experience, hormones, menopause, and having children happens. Sex educator Jaiya Ma was experiencing a downturn on her sex life when...
161: Physical and Emotional Health First with Lisa Carpenter
People put themselves in stressful positions. We’re overachievers and workaholics, and with all these things that we do we're not even sure why. We so often neglect to take care of ourselves. Lisa Carpenter is an advocate for health fitness and is helping...
159: Stepping Into The Spotlight
I am an excellent man behind the scenes and I'm excellent at make others shine. However, I've had an itch to do this for myself my entire life but have never been able to. I've refused to step fully into the spotlight. In here, I reveal why. Go together in this...
158: Six Conversations 4.4 – Forget What You Know About Masculine/Feminine Polarity with Eva Clay and Tobin Zivon
What do you feel our current social and political climate around sexual assault is inviting you to do? What is it asking of you? Whether or not you're acknowledging that or taking action on it yet, hear, feel, and know what's percolating in your body and in...
157: Maintaining Connections with Bryan Reeves
Men and women have different needs and ways of maintaining connection. The former tends to struggle most with it. Delving deeper into that is life and relationship coach Bryan Reeves. Bryan talks about the reasons behind why men can’t seem to get deeper with...
156: Women, Rage, And The Sexual Shadow with Eva Clay And Tobin Zivon
For millennia, women have been conditioned to suppress their anger, borne of well-founded consequences such as violence, exile, and even death. Most women carry not only a lifetime of our own rage, but the ancestral traumas of our foremothers. and yet, anger is...
155: Q & A: Relationships, Triggers, And Narcissists
Rob bares it all out as he takes your questions—about love, relationships, and all other concerns—and answers it with honesty and sincerity. Explore the difficulties of developing a crush on another person during marriage; learn how to share your own shadows...
154: Sexual Taboo: Tapping Into Your Authentic Self
We all have them—sexual taboos. And usually, they’re our biggest turn-ons. Why is “The Forbidden” so erotic? Taboo rules most religions; it’s launched wars, divorces, and probably some of the best sex you’ve ever had. Acclaimed sexologist, Eva Clay and,...
153: Conflict And Mess with Nastaran Tavakoli-Far
Nas is the host of the highly successful and amazing podcast, The Gender Knot. Our first meeting was when we recorded my guest appearance on the show about men and shame. There are many ways that I can describe my experience of this first meeting and the best...
152: I Brag
What do you do when life is so good that you don't know what to do with it? How does one confront when things are going your way? How do you stay sane when all you've known is stress and pain to motivate you? It's no easy feat. Listen to your own internal...
151: The Bold Life with Adam Gilad
Boldness is the courage to get free and be free. That means internally getting free from your ego and from anything that keeps you smaller. Adam Gilad has excavated boldness in conversation, presentation and lifestyle choices. He’s been a dating, relationship,...
150: You’re a Free Woman
When I first started dating Morgan, I said to her a simple phrase, "You're a free woman." I explained that when it came to our dating or engaging in physical intimacy with other people, she didn't need to ask me permission, owe me an explanation, or even have...
149: Six Conversations 4.1: How We Hide Behind Our Superpowers with Tobin Zivon and Eva Clay
Sometimes a whole pattern or strategy in life can be set into motion in one moment. Growing up a raging introvert, acclaimed sexologist Eva Clay was always nervous during family gatherings and would sit during the whole gathering with this book open pretending...
148: The Motivations For Overcoming Adversity with Luke Storey
All of us have great dreams and great things we want to do. We may implement great practices in order to achieve them, but how do we motivate ourselves mentally to do that? Luke Storey is an amazing human being. After kicking heroin, alcohol and crack at 26...
147: The Wisdom Of The Warrior Sage with Satyen Raja
The warrior aspect within us is the one that's willing to feel and walk on the path where there are inconveniences in our life, where we have a contracture, where we hold back from magnifying our full destiny. For Satyen Raja, the warrior is the one that moves...
146: Social Confidence with Myke Macapinlac
Women these days are starting to look for something else. Being a provider as a man, to succeed these days, at least from a dating perspective, isn't enough. You have to have social confidence. You have to become the person who brings the whole package, someone...